Friday, 6 December 2013

Do I smell Christmas

It has been a tough autumn for me and because of such I have let my blog slip so major apologies. I  have to admit today is the hardest day of the year for me as it is the anniversary of my granddads passing and I tend not to start accept its Christmas till this day has past.

That said most of the presents this year are already bought and food planned, so its not as if I dissociate myself from Christmas till the 6th of December, but I refuse to put up decorations etc till then. I always find the irony in the fact my Granddad actually hung on till the 6th St Nicholas day, as he well knew I was well read up on the feasts of Christmas and this was always important to me. Now this may sound quite morose to people but to me it is some form of comfort as this man brought me up whilst my mum worked. So although I find it hard even now to accept he is gone I know he would also see the irony in the date.

Anyway it has given me food for thought this year. Without going into to detail I realise this year has been hard not just for me, but it seems for my closest friends. So much so it has reiterated a childhood bond in one case. But I do think all of us will happily wave 2013 goodbye, but not without some decent celebrating from us all. Again I can't say too much as I believe at least one of them reads this, but this year Christmas presents have a theme to them, and I have managed to spoil all. Not in a money sense necessarily  but in a thought and time sense. Whilst doing this and on one of my scarce days out, I sat outside my favourite coffee chain drinking a much loved coffee and talking to mum. We are both what I would say as students of the human nature, and we tend to watch people and their behaviour. Almost simultaneously we both said where is everyone. You see we were in the height of the lunchtime rush and there just wasn't the people around with the normal hassle of pre Christmas shopping. We shrugged it off until we had to return the week later and it was the same.

It was on those trips it hit home just hard life has become for most people. Christmas mealy highlights the fact that the money just isn't around for people to be trivial with it. So when I head off to the frost fair along with some borrowed children, the magic of Christmas is going to be a lot more innocent and less material than the Christmas' of my past. Sure I will be providing pocket money but not a bottomless pot of cash. In doing this I actually feel some form of release as I believe there will be a stronger focus on fun and less on want. Despite the fact that at the moment I am struggling to walk due to the fact I had a fall earlier this week, I am excited to get there. It has revived the childhood feeling of anticipation and hope.

Although I am going to be held back from doing the mad things of the past I have regained the feeling of Christmas. The idea of going to the market for the fresh fruit and veg just before the big day, was a nightmare last year as crutches and crowds don't mix, but this year I am going with one of my oldest friends and it has become an event to look forward to.  By stripping out the materialistic side of the season it has become more about time spent in the company of family and friends, and it is refreshing.. I am not saying I am a saint  and the mound of present wrapping I have to do it is beyond a joke , in fact it is so bad I need an elf or two to help. But that's because anyone who knows me knows my idea of wrapping is a bit dire. But this year I am going to restore a long forgotten custom that involves present wrapping, a locked room and a bottle of wine.

So what I am trying to say is this year has been hard on most people, and rather than be depressed about what limits you have, look back at the memories of times past and what simple customs you could restore and pass on. Whether it be home made Christmas decorations or stocking fillers on a small budget competition. Start looking at the celebration through your inner child, or better still with people who need the celebration as much as you do. Yes Christmas is a time of giving, but there is no bigger gift than that of time. I speak from experience when I say an hour or two spent with a member of the older generation can be enlightening and fun. Or a coffee with a friend in need becomes the best girly time ever.

So whilst I accept there are obstacles for us all, there is also hope, and with that said some one I know mentioned coffee and homemade mince pies ( thank goodness for cars), so I am off to help test them.

Sunday, 28 July 2013

Simple pleasures

I thought I would start my big catch up with something very simple. I am very lucky where I live. Although being on the suburbs of London I am not 20 minutes drive to the countryside of Surrey. Even better at this time of year I am 10 minutes drive from not one but two lavender fields.

Now for those who don't get why this is so special, the area where I live used to be known for its lavender fields and watercress beds. So to have the return of such a traditional plant is brilliant. Even better is the fact that one of these fields Mayfield Lavender is open to the general public 7 days a week at the moment. Not only can you walk amid the plants and all the bees and butterflies they attract, but you sample the different ways lavender can be used. Granted neither lavender tea or cupcakes rock my boat, but lavender shortbread it a defiant hit in this house.

Not to mention we seem to have gained about 5 different lavender plants to our already extensive collection, and at this moment in time we have lavender drying from various curtain rails.

But what is so special is not what you bring home materially, its the peace and quiet you gain sitting in such a heavily scented field. Its free to go there but the sense of refreshment you gain there is totally priceless.

Wednesday, 29 May 2013

Spare a minute, honour a hero

I have taken a few days to think how I wanted to blog about the horrific event in Woolwich this week. To be frank I have had to let my sheer outrage subside before I dared approach my keyboard. Now I feel calm enough to right something worthy to such a brave man.

Personally I have a lot of admiration for our forces and personally know or have known many people who were either in active service or have served our country. So much so it is hardly surprising that even my hubby is an ex US Navy serviceman. I have always respected a person who can physically honour and protect our country and its safety in a way I never could. But it is their strength of mentality that get overlooked. This people are so focused on their duty that they are exposed to such horrors we dare not imagine.

We all are aware of the cost this comes at, the post traumatic shock or loss of limbs that so many of our service personal suffer. I live close enough to one rehabilitation centre that I was well aware of the cost before it was made national news. As a child I never understood how much that one building would come to represent in a nation.

That is thanks in part to a charity called Help The Hero's, that brought the plight of the injured service personnel to the forefront. In the last few years the awareness has been made more and more visible. In the motor world they are represented at many of the major events. People are wearing the wrist bands and tee shirts to express their support.

Unfortunately it was in one of these shirts that a serviceman was attacked and killed in such a barbaric way I thought we had returned to the middle ages. No matter what the battle or war is no one deserves to die in such a horrific way. In many ways I feel the mass media helped by adding to the horror by giving these criminals airtime by showing their video. Fortunately the general public have reacted in the way Britain's are famed for, we rather than ran in fright, instead united in grief. Sure there are always those who have to go too far, but as a whole the nation has head its head up high.

Now there is a sea of flowers not just at the place where Drumer Lee Rigby fell, but at most local war memorials. The Help for Heroes website is selling out of certain items, and for there is a possibility of some religious tolerance in our communities united in horror. 

I am left feeling hollow that there is a little I can do to repay the debt of this young man and all those who have died before and will do in the future. For this reason I have attached the links for the Help for Hero's web page and two links to people doing the massive cycle ride from Paris to London for Help the Hero's. Some of which who are doing the ride are ex service personal who have suffered injury in service and benefited from the funds raised in the past.

If there is one thing I can do to help it is to pass the word. RIP LEE DIGBY AND ALL THOSE BEFORE HIM.




bmycharity.com/hughvancutsem
http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/

Tuesday, 28 May 2013

Its a sweet summer via Kandee

I am going to keep this short and sweet as most of my readers already know the love I have for Kandee Shoes. That said this seasons collection seems to have something for everyone. What I have done is a quick run down of my hot picks in the range, but please have a look for yourself this is just a taster. I will say this collection covers about all the trends including monochrome, perspex, and wedged heels.
These are All Sorts and I think they must be the easiest way for any girl to embrace this seasons stripey look with out the fear of looking fat.

 
This is Lemon Sparkles and I personally think this is a nice light shoe for any formal outfit. It mixes fun with formal.

 Meet Lemon Ice my out right favourite, this is the perfect mix of tomboy and glam for me. The wedge heel will also cover any height issues I have.
 This is Cherry Bomb, and it is bang on trend with the perspex sides and high gloss colour. Yet it doesn't take itself to seriously with the lips instead of bows on the front.
Glitter bomb is another wedged trainer, it is less flashy in look and would be a good wear to get away with trainers at work as no one would see that under a pair of trousers.

Finally my ultimate tea shoe for all those summer parties and garden parties Berry Blue. I just love the sparkle on the edging.
 
 
This is only my favourites, like I said you need to look at the whole collection, but I know my purse is going to feel this, still a girl can never have enough Kandees.

Sunday, 12 May 2013

primart results

During my great London adventure in the week I just had to pop in to primart Oxford Street for a few bits. This is a bit of a tradition with me, and it has been known for me to show up at a screening of a tv programme with a primart bag squeezed to my over sized handbag.

Any way as per usual I myself a budget  and promptly spent double it. However I did score some real bargain buys. Tee shirt sports bra's sre now £3 and come in a range of colours as well as the standard black and white.  There were a few tee  shirts at £3 reduced from £6 or even £8 needless I have picked up a couple of both the bra's and the tee shirts.

I also found a lovely mickey mouse sweat top for £10, that is not a childish design. Another good buy wss s cross body bag for £4, which being on crutches is a great buy.i do have a bag already that is that bit biggest inabling mr to carry around more than I need, this new one puts pay to that.

Apart from the other bits I picked up I was most pleased with my new live hearts lip balm. I love it so much that I can't wait for the end of June when they release the new wallis ice cream range..I the summer months I really like having seasonal lip balms to lift my spirits. .

More worrying is fact I have found there is a second primart at the Tottenham Court Road end of the road. This is really good news as its a straight tube ride for me. So easy end of July mum has agreed to accopany me for a browse and to bag carry.

I am a bit of a weird shopper as I mix disposable purchases from primart with vintage or something similar. I believe if I treat all the clothes the same way  I get more value for money and I always recycle my old clothes.  But I love a bargain whether it be orimart or sales or even a charity shop.

oops I did it again

I seriously don't need any more nail polish,  yet some how another 3 have made it into my collection.

I just had to pop into Superdrug the other day for the bits required for a weekend break. Absolutely fatal,  as I immediately went to the makeup section.  As I needed an eye primer and there was a 3 4 2 offer I just had to give a jel polish a go and a textured one. So I now possess Barry M  textured Ridley road and prickly pear jel polish.  Yet still I couldn't find MUA pistachio ice so I left ready to try these.

Unfortunately as i had to go on line last night to replace my Welda skin food I some how ended up on the MUA site. Finally I was able to get the polish I have been so desperate for.

I seriously will have to have therapy for nail varnish addiction if i carry on speaking of which the next edition of Marie Claire comes with a ciate cookies and cream nail set on the 6th of June.  That's it I need therapy.

Friday, 10 May 2013

Glossy Box 2nd Birthday

After an expected text on Monday I decided to go to the 2nd birthday celebrations of glossy box in Covent Garden on Wednesday.  It was a brave move as I haven't been to London since my illness on my own.

I won't lie, it wasn't easy as still TFL haven't got the idea about the needs of their disabled customers. In fact I am in so much pain today, I won't do it again on my own. London is just too much of a problem for me on my own.

That said I made it to the event with an hour to spare before the first box opening. Well that translates to me as coffee time. Coffee obtained I had a  browse including adding to my hat collection,  one day I will remember to take one with me when I am out and about.

I finally joined the group that was beginning to gather. It seemed to be an endless wait but finally kimberley came out and the count down began. The giant box opened with a glossy box for all and all the crowd control of a rugby scrum.  Once I finally had ectracted myself from the crush box in hand,  I found unlike some celebrities Kimberly was just standing around to sign boxes and take photos.  Naturally I had to go and get mine signed and some one kindly took my picture. So I left a very happy bunny, and had I been a normal person I would have gone straight home,  but I don't think I have ever been normal and instead headed to Oxford Street for some retail therapy.

Now that was a bad idea on all levels. Sure I have got some real bargains, however I spent too much, walked to far abd found out just how the general public have disregard for the less able. It is Friday and I am still in bed  healing from the injuries I obtained . My left arm is swollen twice its size my feet are swollen from people stamping on them. All in all it was less retail therapy and more brutal blood sports.

So I left London on a high from the glossy box event  and vowed never to go shopping solo there again.

Sunday, 5 May 2013

monthly shop

It is my monthly review of my purchases and beauty products. I have to admit this month I haven't spent that much this month, but instead I used some of my aquired points from Birchbox and gained bits through magazines etc.

My outright favourite for the month is Taaj micellar cleansing water.  I had heard so much about this and thought as I had enough points I would give it a go. Well as I have already blogged I love my l'occitane cleanser and it would take me a lot to change. Especially as all the medication I am on makes my skin unpredictable to say the least. So I was careful with how I tested this. But there wss no need for all the concern. To put bluntly this product is brilliant and now a firm favourite with me. I have altered my routine so I get the best from my skin care and use this for daily wear when I have little or no make up on and the other days I use my l'occitane products.

My next favourite was also a BIRCHBOX points buy. It is Natio ageless rosehip serum. Now I have a piece of advice for using this a little is all you need. If you remember that you can't go wrong,  its a great serum for reducing those lines and generally condition the skin. It is already replacing my previous choice of serums.

With this months IN STYLE magazine there is a choice of 3 nails inc polishes.  The choices are a baby pink, a tomato red and a light coral. I went for the later as I have colours similar to the other to.  Unlike other give aways by nails inc I only felt the urge to buy the one even though the price if the magazine is less than half the value of the the polish.

Marie Claire magazine is giving away a choice of three products fromAvon. The choices are a red lipstick,  brow pencil in Brown and a gel eye liner. Again I choose the later,  this time as I am always in looking for the perfect eye liner. Again it is worth picking out the best product for you rather than buying the magazine several times over.

So that is the run down of the best of the month. Mind you I have 2boxes of both birchbox and glossy box, a new junior glossy box and a Cew award winners box to review so I think I am going to be busy.

A time to reflect

I don't normally do this,  but I wish to take the time in this blog to honour and remember a man who has been a major influence in my life and has suddenly been taken from us.

Although I first met him and his family in the capacity of my minister, time soon proved he was going to be more than that. I met him at the age that most adults fear, my late teens.  Instead of treating me as a child he was able to address me as a young adult. This was to develop  into me working for him,  alongside teaching his children music. At the time I was extremely grateful for the opportunity as I was beginning my life long battle with chronic illness.

He was able to support this struggle as he had personal experience with a chronic illness himself. He guided me through  more than one operation,  including the life changing ones which demolished the chance me to follow my musical career.

Unlike the stereo typical example of religious leaders he would appear in the unusual places, including the local community fair, where he passed on guidance on how to win in certain games. In return I enjoyed a glorious day of fun and mischief with his children at the local theme park. So much so I can't go on one ride with out remembering that day.

Even though his job meant he was to move away, we stayed in touch and as life changes I don't think I altered my faith in him and his family. When he returned to discuss his first pilgrimage to Spain it was clear nothing had changed in our friendship.

I was sad he was unable to travel to my wedding,  however he was very much there in spiritual presence having phoned several times before.  He did make it down a couple of years later for a mutual friends funeral. It was there I had to admit how ill I had become. Instead of sympathy or pity we ended up swapping notes and tips on how to get the most out of life.

That was the last time I saw him in person,  but the joys of modern technology and social media meant we were able to keep in touch on a regular basis. Sharing tales of adventures, lows of illness and matters of social conscious.

The last message was a jokey note regarding my new hair cut. That was two weeks ago.  I never dreamt that would be the last I heard from him.

This was the man who has seen me at my worse, stood by me when the odds were against me. He was the minister who confirmed  my mother and grandfather.  But was more than a leader, he was my first equal in life. The love for him and his family has never faulted  through the highs and lows from both sides.

I am still struggling to come to terms with the news I will never see or hear from him again. Worse still is the knowledge that if I am struggling I can only imagine how hard it must be for his family.

So I wanted to dedicate this page of my blog to the man who knew I could not only survive,  but be able to help others get through it. For he was a man who walked the roads of pilgrim's and did so not to preach about it but to share and inspire others.

REV PHILIP WREN, may you rest in peace and in the knowledge your work here on earth will continue.xx.

Thursday, 2 May 2013

The down side they don't tell you

The problem with illnesses like CRPS is it is kept so quiet the  access of information is limited. Granted it is hard illness to describe let alone live with.

As a person still new to living with this illness it has a nasty habit of catching me out. The most annoying fact I am still getting used to is the fact what should be a common cold with light aches becomes a form of torture. I am trying to describe a whole new level of pain. As all normal patterns of pain go out the window and is replaced by pure random pains that take you to the level of near black out

Bare in mind I am only a stage 1sufferer I can only imagine what life is like for a sufferer of a higher level. I have heard from people who are medically diagnosed with stage 2 or 3 and the things that they endure is that of my nightmares . At the moment I am stuck in bed with a virus that decided to flare up every joint with a historic injury,  and to be honest I was feeling very down about it,  especially now we finally have some nice weather . Then I hear from a cyber friend who has ended up in hospital having blacked out at the top of the stairs from pain. Actually this is the second cyber friend in as  many weeks to do that.  It is then I realise how lucky I am to only be a stage 1 sufferer. But it doesn't make the pain and frustration any less.

So I am getting to use the down time to catch up on my blog both reading and writing and count my blassings.

Wednesday, 1 May 2013

models own purchases

A few weeks ago I made the most of the Boots 3 4 2 offer. Thus was mainly as with a new haircut I was in need of some new hair products which I will cover in a different post. However I did just kind of stumble across a handful of Models Own polishes that having read about them I had to have them in my life.

I will admit that I am a bit of a magpie when it comes to all things sparkly and that was the driving force behind my choices. The first three were from the winter collection,  I did want all 5 but some wrre sold out. However I managed to get jack frost a small white glitter in a clear polish,  snowflakes a larger glitter version and southern lights a silver/multi coloured glitter in a condensed form. I really wanted the northern lights as well which wad a purplish version of this range and if anyone knows where I can get it please let me know.  In the meantime I have been able to get disco mix which is a cruder version of the idea.

The other ones I purchased were hayleys cometa purple metallic two tone and indian ocean a pale blue version . Then there is the boringly named purple blue which is a dense glitter in dark fine glitter with tinges of royal blue and from the hedkandi range disco heaven a tough gold glitter.

I don't normally go on such a binge but the offer just coincided with a few purchases I had wanted to make. Later on I will be doing swatches on all my nail purchases but for now I am polished out.

nails inc purchases

For the first time ever I have actually bought directly from the Nails Inc website. This time I purchased a lucky dip offer that was running for 24 hours on Friday. It meant that for the price of 18 pounds plus postage I received 7 randomly pick nail polishes .I accept that this was quite a gamble for first time purchase however I was looking forward to seeing what colours they would actually send me considering my delivery arrive this morning which is Tuesday I was more than happy with the speed of delivery for the cost of postage.

The seven colours I received were without the excess packaging that I get so used to instead they were carefully and securely contained in a package with little waste but no chance of damage.

the first time that I saw when I opened package was a tomatoe red called Draycott Street.  There was then a royal blue called Southwark and an emerald green called Knights bridge green. None of these I would have naturally chosen but as the parent pointed out I have tops and jumpers in those colours so I can find a use for them.

I have to admit the I others I am completely taken with. There is a pale yellow called Notting Hill Carnival,  a vibrate light pink called Grosvenor Street.  Both of these are on trend with the candy seaside look. The final two I am wearing. There is a so called neon shade  called Westbourne Grove which is more apricot and a sprinkles lilac called cherry road. The apricot looks fab on my toes and the sprinkles us on my fingers. I found the later easy to apply and one coat is fab coverage.

I am more than happy with this lucky dip and inclined to buy another one next season. As nails inc are normally £11 per bottle and even with postage I paid less than 22 the maths isn't hard. I have found 4 colours I love and got 3 extras in stable colours. Yes there is always a risk buying like this but sometimes a girl just had to take a leap of faith.

modern technophobe

Ok first of all sorry for the lack of up dates. In the transfer from normal old school phones the modern world of android phones I seem to lost the ability to work my own pc it is been over a month since I've actually been on my computer hence the lack of blogs.
now i have worked out my phone can even take dictation I can write my blog season quicker so I hope you can bare with me.

It seems forever since I have written and so much to catch up on so in the next few days I'll attempt to condense posts that would interest you fairing confession to illness.

needless to say the last few weeks far than boring and I hope you had fun enjoyable events happening in the meantime .

Sunday, 7 April 2013

a strange request

This is going to be a  weird one and probably rule me out of the years style stacks. But in these last few weeks I have found that the dreaded onesies have their uses. They prevent my poor back and adjoining joints getting a cold draught and then going into a spasm.

Based on this fact I now have two of them one that is fleecy and warm and the other with a hood but only cotton. What I am really in need of is one that combines both the fleecy material and a hood. Preferably with a pocket. There was an ideal one on ASOS but by last Wednesday when I got paid it had totally sold out.

So if anyone knows where you can one in a sizes 22 ( I like to be able to wear clothes underneath) and matches these criteria, please please let me know. As long as it isn't that dreaded fair isle design I will love it. To be honest I don't care if I look like a ladybird or even a cute animal. It is out of necessity I ask and would only be worn at home.

Many thanks

Time for the chop

No I haven't turned into  french revolutionary or a mass murder, nor am I axing my blog. Instead it was time for the spring chop for my hair. Which I have to admit is normally quiet simple loss the ends and maybe end up  bit darker than before,. But it has been a long time since I tried something different. To be honest I have been left disappointed after the first few days with my new cut as it I high maintenance to maintain the salon look and give up.

For some reason every hairdresser I have to been to has always tried to give me style that requires endless hour of straightening irons. If any one bothers to look at me, and my hair that's a lot of daily work as my hair just has to see water and it curls. So this time I tried some where new, well new to me, it has been there for years.  With some ideas yesterday I took the brave step and trusted an unknown stylist to work some magic.

I knew I wanted the grey gone, and some two tone look, on a shoulder length cut, but so it looked liked me. and after much work with the colour and an appointment that lasted 3 and 3/4 hours I left £90 poorer and with a hair cut that not only can I live with but seems to be the cut for me. This time when they said book an trim in 6 weeks I am actually looking forward to it.

Whats more the hairdresser refused to take a tip, until I really insisted. She said her reward was to see a person more confident and happy with their cut. That is such an old fashioned value and yet one that is hardly ever heard of now a days. What is more is she respected my hair is curly and there as no sign of the GHDs. There was no force selling of products, instead I had to ask what she would recomend.

This is an all time first that I will actually be looking forward to booking my next hair appointment and not leaving it to the point where I have no choice and have to go.




Thursday, 4 April 2013

Post easter thoughts

So whilst most people are left with the empty cartons and post Easter slump brought on from way too much chocolate, I for once can breath a sigh of relief. Not because I didn't celebrate, because we did, there is still lunches including hot cross buns in this house. But for once I don't hae worry the clothes that i owned before Easter won't fit me, because they do, and the reason why is I have yet to gorge myself on the feat of chocolate I was given.

No I am not on some self crusade as much as I am proving a point to myself. That I still have will power. Both hubby and mum have had birthdays over the last week one being on Easter Sunday, so there has been more than enough food around without the need to binge out on additional chocolate. Now whilst everyone else here has half empty bags of eggs I still have all mine to actually enjoy and savour, and most of all ration.

For the gift of Easter was meant to be lasting not binge and regret a week later. Maybe I am trying to go back to the true meaning of Easter and for that matter Xmas as we still have candy left from that. We are living too much in the now and caught up in the material value over what we can get and how much it cost. I have started to put a set limit on gifts to Godchildren, yes I wonder if I am being me, but I put a set limit per child and that's it and it is the same for each one. For the older ones they often get in in cash to put to something they want to have. But that is my rule and I am now sticking to it. The last year of having next to nothing and coming out the other side of it has made me realise money doesn't always make you happy but friendship, love and gifts carefully thought out do.

There will still be a guilt when I eat my eggs that I have the chance to eat this much, but at least I know I will remember that.

Have I missed something?

I don't know if I am the only one, but I thought we were meant to be in spring. According to my recently revamped wardrobe and newly up dated make up it is meant to ! Yet I look outside and I am sure I am in the middle of winter! My skin resembles a lightly frostbitten look, my hands and lips are chapped. What has happened ? Did the UK get towed to the north pole when no one was looking, or has the world slipped on its axis?

I am fed up of reading that the UK is colder than Lapland or the base of Everest. It is purely depressing. Especially when this news is accompanied with the news of farmers losing their livestock under the snow drifts. Granted we in the London area haven't got much to complain about except the freezing temperatures ( made ten times worse if like us your boiler is no longer working). But on top of all the cuts our wonderful government is inflicting us with, it is making the first quarter of 2013 tiresome and exhausting.

To top it off today is my mum's 71st birthday and never in her living memory has she had snow for her birthday. Yet guess what yep we have snow! In April no less. Now I like my winters cold and my summers hot, with spring and autumn being their necessary weather temperatures. But this is a joke I have  photo of the area in the last two weeks when I went on a trip to Sussex and as you will see it looks more like Christmas card than the week for Easter.

So whilst my summer skirt has just arrived by courier I am busy painting my nail with snowflakes AGAIN.

Monday, 25 March 2013

Thank you

I have never been lucky with on line competitions, however in the last two weeks I have won a pair of shoes from Kandee and some L'Occitane goodies via a Glossy Box / L'Occitane twitter competition.

The Kandee shoes were a Lime colour of their Skinny Bitch range, which is great as I know I can wear them. Although I was a little worried about the colour and as most of my friends will tell you I am usually conservative in my colour choices, I found this pair match some white outfits I have so it has worked out wonderfully.

The skin products from L'Occitane were a full size skin cream and hand cream. So again a worth while prize. Although this one I have to fight off mum as she wants the hand cream. I may well give in and be a nice daughter and just let her have it.

Anyway I am not bragging, I just wanted to say thank you to the companies concerned, and also I want to say to all those who enter these competitions on Twitter and Facebook, keep going you never know your luck.

Wednesday, 20 March 2013

Pity the delievery men

Thanks to the sales, the luck of the Irish and EBay, my front path is getting well trodden. This pleases me, but unfortunately Orinoco has a thing against deliveries and the people who make them. Everything from the post man to the Kleeneaze man they all get the same reception, a loud one. What I want to know is how the heck he knows to sit by the door and wait but he has mastered that.

The poor man from DPD has been so busy with Kandee deliveries that he knows just to laugh at the dog and totally defeats the noise. How ever the new yodel man nearly hopped over the fence with shock. Anyway we should have  had a few days off from the noise till Friday when the next lot is due, by which time my headache may have subsided.

In the mean time I am now resting my back as the case of Coke that arrived today has totally stuffed it. The thing is the delivery men make it look very light to carry these parcels, and up to five years ago I used to be able to swing these cases about, but now a days anything more than a kilo and I am in trouble, so a case of 24 cans are well out of my limit. However as no one tells you what is in the box till you sign for it and take it , I had no clue and now my back is seeking revenge.

As I started writing this page it was Tuesday, and I have just got to complete this blog to a) find the poor postman carrying 90% of the outstanding parcels down my path and b) having won something else to add to the total of the parcels expected. So I have increased my postman's loathing for me, and the dog induced headache. But I look at this way, by being a total girl I am keeping many postal services in order.

Monday, 18 March 2013

Kandee Sweetness



Now normally I blog about new ranges and what in the ideal world I would buy from Kandee. Well for once there 80% sale hit my pay day and now my one pair of shoes has multiplied to three pairs, two handbags and a clutch bag. That is not counting the pair I was fortunate to win yesterday.

My first purchase was a set of pink skinny bitch heels, and a matching clutch and normal handbag. They were gorgeous and all cost me less than £90 including postage. I feel in love so much that I had to get a bag to go with my black skinny bitch heels I received for my 40th last year so I got brave and went for a tangerine orange one as they had sold out of the black bags. My final purchase was the Galaxy heels all red and sparkly. They make me feel like Dorothy out of the Wizard of Oz, but standing a little taller. What surprised me was that set came with an extra pair of heels for when they get worn down.

It is little features like that, and the individual shoe bags and dust bags for the handbags, that makes me fall in love with the brand more and more. What I will receive for my prize I don't know, but I do know I will be hoovering till the driver arrives with the package. Just the anticipation is enough to make it an event in itself.

Every pair is hand crafted leather and the shoes feel in balance unlike cheaper heels. There have been teasers for the S/S13 range and the mention of a separate Haute Couture range. So I for one will be waiting with anticipation for that. In the meantime I suggest if you have a few spare penny's this sweetness of a sale won't break your lent diet,  but will make you feel like a princess.

I personally can't wait for the new season with the promise of wedged trainers and polka dots it is all very exciting, I just pray for a couple of pairs of flats, for as much as I adore my heels I want to wear Kandee's at places you wouldn't expect them and that requires flats.
 
 
 

Fragrance Direct Purchases

I knew it would happen after my first successful purchase from this website, I was bound to go back. Sure enough last Friday I went a looking, mainly for more Dainty Doll products. What I found was a whole lot more

To start with I purchased a Dainty Doll eye base primer and eye liner at £2.99 and £0.99 respectively. I also picked up a Bojouis eye shadow £1.99 and powder brush 99p, Macadamia nut leave in conditioner £2.99, two face powders £1.75 each, two nail files 99p and 75p, three Essie nail polishes £1.99 each. Even with second class postage (which arrived today Monday) I had change of £25, not bad how ever you look at it, especially as the Macadamia range normally price at £9.99 and so on.

I am not going to go into major detail of every product today, mainly because I have yet to try everything. However one thing I was aware of when I went to this site is not everything is current range, that said I picked up three colours of Essie nail polish. Wrapped up which is a burgundy red with gold flecks, Imported bubbly which is a nude with a sheen and Sweet Talker which is an on trend pastel blue. Now that does prove that some trends run for more than one season and you can pick up the new look at a better price.

Granted for me it was more a tester practise to try out different brands with out breaking the bank, I have come up with more than one little gem. The Dainty Doll eyeliner in Shake your Tail is a wonderful peacock green and the Lentheric pressed powders especially the translucent were also good choices.

For a bargain or to experiment I can't recommend it highly enough. Next month I will be replacing my shampoo for something more suited to the new colouring so guess where I will be looking first.

Friday, 15 March 2013

Dainty Doll via FD

Now I have never used either Fragrance Direct as a shop or Dainty Doll as a product till this week, but thanks to fellow blogger Fee I decided I needed to try both in my life. I was shocked when I saw how cheap the products are on Fragrancedirect.com but if you have never been there before it is worth a look. If nothing else delivery is only £2.99 1st class and £1.99 2nd class.

Needless to say with the low delivery charges and cheap prices I bought more than I intended and still had change from £25 purchases were 5 Dainty Doll products, 3 Essie nail polishes, 2 nail files, A macadamia leave in conditioner, a boujois eye shadow and a NYC lip stain. You don't need a math degree to work out even with first class postage that's on average £2 per product. Definitely cheaper than anywhere else. That said you won't necessarily find this seasons range on there but for classics and favourites you may well find a bargain, some of the essie nail colours were last years stock but defiantly go into this years trends.

However today I will focus on the Dainty Doll purchases. I have yet to try the eye primer but the other four are as below

I choose a lipstick in 008 shade, it is a nude but not as pale as my other one. In fact it is near a possible to my own shade of lips. There is a little of the gritty feel and by the scent of it, I expect to have to use it with in the year then ditch. That said for £1.99 I won't have lost out. I love the solid metal casing as well it will mean I won't break it as I usually do.

I bought one powder blush for £2.99 in shade 004 which as come up a bit dark to look up but on skin it soon blends in naturally so I am very happy. Love the mirror in the compact, but I will have to invest in a nice brush as nothing comes with it.

The other purchases were two cream blushes in shade 001 and 002.  They both blend in nicely with my skin especially if they are blended together and then I have finally found a way to wear blush with out those lines of the 80s.

The problem I have is a very mixed colour complexion with a very pale base colour and then high pigmentation on the cheeks. So I found these products worked incredibly well with my complexion. I had heard of the brand before but never dared to try them, as I was weary of the hype as it was the label of one of the members of Girls Aloud. That said I an see me adding to my collection of these and probably via Fragrance Direct as they are hard to beat on prices

Thursday, 14 March 2013

March Birchbox

So everything is runnng early this month Birchbox included. Although as it's theme is Mothers Day it is technically late. That said I am not complaining the contents as usual is great.

Inside we are treated to Laura Geller gel liner, which as I have yet to try a gel liner is rapidly onverting me as I have worn it every day since  To buy it is £24.50 retail but I am seriously considering this one .

There is Molton Brown Valbonnee Fragrance at £65. I don't get on with this at all but thats not to say it is a bad perfume, it just doesn't work for me.

Next was RMK Cleansing Balm. Now I have already stated how much I don't get on with rose frangranced products so my heart dropped when I saw this. But I did try it and I was overruled with the result. Although I still have an issue with the scent I cant deny the result and softness it left was at the supieror end of the market. Full size it is £29 but compared to the amount you require to use it will probably work out very economical.

La Sultane De Saba Body Lotion, was a surprise as the scent reminded me of the Tunisian markets I have visited and it didn't let the memories down. Containing argan oil is left my skin so soft and smelling so sensorous. the only down side is the strength of the smell it won't always work with other fragrances. To buy a full size bottle you are looking at £26.50 which I personally also think is a little steep.

Then we got Yu-Be Moisturizing Skin Cream at £19.50 I am mixed on this one and to be honest the sample size didn't give me enough to test it fairly. It intially smells of tiger balm, but it left soft silky skin, however I am just not sure.

There was also two little extras a valentines tin of Lindor which is yummy and  a tester of Sanctuary themal spa which I have already reviewed, but always grateful for another freebie.

All in all a box of surprises, and I am overall happy with it. Anyone else got an opinion?

Tuesday, 12 March 2013

New Glossy Box

Now those who read these posts will know I am still mixed about Glossy Box. Last months was ok but the first one really let me down. So when I received this months box I opened with mixed feelings as if I was unimpressed I would be cancelling my subscription.

Its leaflet stated it was a city chic themed box, which does sound promising so now I opened the wrapping a bit faster. Inside for once I was elated with everything in the box, in fact it was so perfect that this box could have been designed just for me. The contents is as follows.

Nails Inc mini in Brunton Street, it is described as a dusty pink nude, personally I would say it was an ashes of roses colour, which is among my favourite colours.
Full size £11 and definitely on my to buy list

Elizabeth Arden 8 hour skin protector 7ml.  I have been dying to try this range as it is meant to be a beauty bible stable, I will let you know if it lives up to its hype.
£25 for full size glossy box subscribers get a free creme lip protector stick worth £20 if they spend £25

L'Occitane Immortelle Precious Creme 15ml. I just love this cream as it seems to just lift my skin and make glow and feel so soft.
£43 for 50ml

Tresemme Salon Finish Extra Hold Hairspray 100ml. I have yet to find  hairspray that works on my hair so I will try this out after my big hair cut in the next month
Full Size £4.69

Jelly Pong Pong Lip Blush in cranberry Full size. I have loved this brand for years and it is nice to know that they are a cruelty free brand. They are usually quirky and cute and good quality. As I am new to lip stains I will happily try this out
£12 full size

So as you see it is quite a selection, Keep this up Glossy Box and I may forget why I thought about leaving you.

Confused now

Fair enough I have had the day from hell, involving one back injury (me) one fall causing ankle damage ( mum) and one husband back on the unemployed list due to work sudden cut backs. But none of this can explain the mess of my email.

You see as I said a post back I am now expecting something in the region of 10 deliveries, so I am reliant on Hermes tracker, ups tracker and a miracle regarding Royal Mail. Anyway thankfully my email now goes to my wonderful new phone which I swear is a PC in disguise. That aside I was wonderfully awoken in the early hours by hubby and I checked email, nothing on there about any deliveries being dispatched, so after replying to a few alerts and looking at the pursuing blizzard outside I opted for a duvet day.

Not an hour later was there  familiar bang on the door followed by a lunatic of my dog going mental. So out of my bed I fell and collected two unexpected parcels. Bleary eyed I realised one wasn't even on my list of due in for another week. Not that I am complaining as I always like my beauty boxes, but that is another post. But this is not the puzzle that came later.

Two hours later actually when I received an email saying my glossy box was due for dispatching. Well DUH! I was already in possession of such box.  Then an hour later I got another email saying my ASOS order had just left the warehouse and would be with me in 3 - 5 days. OK this is getting silly, I also had received that this morning. So when I got the third email stating my glossy box was now with my local delivery service, I was a bit fed up. So much so I turned on my PC to check the times on these emails were right and not my phone on time delay. However the phone was running right to time. So basically when I started further emails about other deliveries I am now just guessing when they will arrive or should they have already got here?

This circus will continue because I am due 3 deliveries tomorrow and one on Wednesday. Not mention 2 others are due by the end of the week. Apart from my local Hermes man hating me who wants to bet that none of the parcels arrive in the correct order?

Saturday, 9 March 2013

OMG I have turned into a ..GIRL!

I have never been what you would call normal, nor for one second would I want to be. But I have always bucked the trends and idea of designer being better. Over the last few years I have gradually developed my own quirk on fashion and makeup. But even then it came and went as the mood took me. Since I have started to blog and really since that last big birthday I decided makeup might be a good idea as with skin care.

However something weird has happened in the last few weeks. I an only put it down to having time on my hands due to my illness and mums little glip in health. But thanks to the tax man being nice and returning the overpayment he owed me, I had the inclination to treat myself. However this little treat turned into a major shop that has ended up with 2 spring weight jumpers, a skirt, a top, some make up, a lot of body shop bath stuff, shorts and a Kandee set of bags and matching heels. Now I am not here to gloat, but thanks to a careful shop and the joys of the Internet I have to admit I have only spent less than a third of the labled price. Now this was majorily helped by Kandee having a flash 80% sale so the set of 2 bags and matching pair of heels cost less than the labled price of the shoes alone by 40%. But nothing was bought at full price and now I realise I have ended up with a core spring / summer wardrobed and enough bath products to last the year lol.

I have found that the internet has some major plus points not just because I can't  get up and about easily round endless shopping malls, but also for compairing prices. Not last month thanks to the net and a voucher I purchased 3 pairs of new look shoes for the price of one.  The only place that is suffering is the high street. For that I am sorry, but the lack of foresight towards less able customers is a major downfall, and the fact that once I have struggled there I find they haven't got what I want in my size and colour and I have to go to a different branch for it is pure madness.

Anyway it was only after this madness of shopping and my come down that it was pointed out to me there were no combats, baseball boots or other tomboy stuff in my purchases. Now this is most unusual especially as I have trashed yet another pair of combats this week alone. In fact there are defiant shades of pink in my purchases which has caused much laughter in my house when it was announced I have gone all girly. No I haven't gone to the dark side of every barbie pink and frightened to break a nail. But next time I am at a car event you may have to check under the ball cap to check for make up.

Besides as I told them here, I am having a radical hair changed booked next month and I want to try a look that will go with it.

Sunday, 3 March 2013

Good ridance to Febuary

The unusul quietness of my blogging can only be put down to the lousy sinus infection that has been going round. There is little constructive that can be writen about the onstnt bleeding nose that alternates with headaches that make a person wish to smash their head against the wall. In fact the only relief I have found is when I am so overwhelmed by pain I have passed out.

That said after about two weeks of varying levels of hell I have managed to fit in a couple of things worth blogging about, which I will catch up on in the next few days. However I am hoping the weather will also changed with the change of month. I am sick to death of winter now. It is time for the spring to raise it's colours and fill the skys with a hint of sun minus, rain/sleet/snow take your pick.

Anyway be warned there will be a storm of posts in the next week or so.

Saturday, 23 February 2013

Too many waiting rooms

Firstly let me say we are mid way through all the tests and results for mum and her heart and blood pressure problems. But I am already sick to the back teeth of hospitals, doctors surgery's and everything else medical. In the last two days alone we have done 2 different hospitals and a doctors . Yet we have at least a week more of this and that is everything is pretty simple.

So far for next week I personally have one doctors and one dentist appointment and mum has a doctors, and that's just Monday and Tuesday covered. I know I will have at least one more dentist appointment to add to this as there is a hole in one tooth that I know of. But I am not complaining about the appointments it is the car parks and their sky high prices then the endless waits in rooms some of which I flinch at. We were in one room today that I wished I had taken a picture of as the only way I can describe it as something left over from the 40's war hospitals. Including the peeling paint and claustrophobic atmosphere.

What really eats at me is the cost of parking. I am a genuine blue badge holder but at all the places we went to there was on average 4 parking spaces allocated for blue badges per hospital. Meaning not only was I facing £2 per hour parking but also a hop that nearly killed me to get mum to where she was due to be. Hospitals are meant to be set up to care for the sick and ensure they are accessible to all. Yea well some one seriously needs to re think the hospital near me. I am sure they are set up in such a way it costs you a fortune to park an endless way away from where you need to be. You can be sure that the department that has been in the same place for the last 10 years has moved to somewhere obscure the one time you need to get in and out in a hurry. The most recent bug bear I have is the sudden appearance of Costa Coffee in hospitals. Pushing the league of friends profits down. I don't object to Subways in hospitals, mainly because at least we know I can eat something then. But Costa as well? That is just mean on the charity shop fighting to survive and provide the little extras for patients.

I have spent unfortunately too much of my life in and around hospitals, but I have to say in the last 5 years things have gone from being a little lax to absolutely dire.  In the times I have had operations I have things like coming round in a bed as they were spraying Pharaoh ants around me, to being unable to eat anything but the oj and toast for a week. But that was 20 years ago, now a days I would be terrified to go back in for a stay over night. Last time I was in it cost me £10 to get tv and internet, now that would be higher, plus the cost of me having to get food from Subway. Then there would be the fact that it would cost my family a bomb just to come up for an hour.

So whilst I am concerned about mums illness and hoping that she gets the treatment she needs, I am seriously praying she doesn't need anything needing a hospital stay as not only will it cost a fortune, she would probably come out of the hospital with something worse medically than she went in with.

Sunday, 17 February 2013

Top Gear Refreshed

I can't put my finger on it,as there is little obvious change, and I am sure I am heading for some rude remarks from certain areas of the cyber world. But I am convinced the years break has brought a fresh feel to Top Gear. Whether it be the presenters are refreshed, or the editing has become slicker, I don't know or really care.

What I are about is the fact that my Sunday evening is filled with a mixture of petrol heads, comedy and some time heart stopping moments. When asked why, it is simple, it is the one programme every one in my house does and always has liked. Whether it be the programme in the 70s I used to watch with my grandfather and mother. Or the program I used to share a laugh and info with my male flat mates and bar colleagues, even now it unites parent, husband and I. How many other programs can do that ? in my house none!

I won't claim it is a serious car show, or even takes itself too seriously, but that's why people tune in. Little do they know that in some roundabout way they are actually taking some facts in. Whether it be the difference between over and under steer or the true fuel economy of some of the super and hyper cars. I remember the permanent image of a cat verses a terrier as to the difference to the over and under steer. Crazy I know but it works and it won't be just me it is subconsciously sinking in with.

But I do ask the question, why is there only one show left that does this. We are all subjected to numerous channels spurting out endless junk and repeats, but what has happened to quality programming. Where have the quality chat shows like Aspel and Parkinson gone, or programs like Tomorrows World disappeared to. These were unoffensive to all and you could always guarantee to either learn something or at least have a probing interview rather than a non stop plug. If in the entire world of television you are telling me all that is left of this era is those working in Top Gear then we better start worrying.

That is no criticism to Top Gear, but I am always aware there will be the day when Clarkson, May and Hammond will no longer be able to physically present the show. I some how don't feel it would work if they were presenting the shows from their zimmer frames. I personally still sigh with relief every time the news comes out that they have signed a new 3 year contract, as I am now at the stage were after 10 years they could all it quits.

However after this years break off our screens they have come back with what I would say is one of their strongest seasons, with (and I hope I don't speak to soon) the least amount of controversy for a long time. This week has been a very petrol head based episode that may not have ticked every ones boxes, but still had plenty of laughs, and at the end of the day there does has to be a car or two in there every so often. All I know is if the rest of  the season and year is as strong as it has been so far, we can look forward to Top Gear being on a screens for a while longer as it still hold that appeal sorely missed from so many programs.

Friday, 15 February 2013

Next Glossy Box

I was less than impressed with my last Glossy Box so when this months arrived I did open it with a mixture of hope and doubt. Although I have to give them points for speed of delivery, I received an email yesterday saying that it was on it's way, and to expect it in 3 -5 working days, so for it to arrive today was impressive.

The box itself was a lovely valentine pink with a box printed on it, and inside it maintained the pink packaging. The menu was the same printed piece of paper folded up, containing the product information and cost, with a guide to do the perfect lipstick. However this time the products were far more my kind of thing.

There is a Rituals body cream in cherry blossom and rice milk, a Miners full size lip stick in cinnamon. This lipstick is actually the ideal colour for me so that is lucky. There  is a Micbella Cosmetics mineral eye shadow in 53 deep secrets, a mauve/brown colour. Figs and Rouge multi purpose lip balm (it can also be used on all dry skin emergencies from nails to elbows. Mine was in rambling rose, my least favourite scent but is available in geranium, peppermint and tea tree or cherry vanilla and if I like the results I may buy a different version and palm the rose version off to mum. Then there is a MEMEME be the blues illuminator. Now I love this brand and I am more than pleased to see this brand in my box especially a full sized product of it.

To finish off there was a glossy box heart lollipop just to highlight this is a month of romance. There is also discount on most products if bought full size with the except of the Figs and Rouge which is hardly bank breaking at £3.49 anyway. There is also a slight problem with the Rituals code in the fact it expires on the 20th of the Jan this year which I am sure has been and gone.

All in all this box is a great improvement on the last the last box so I am actually looking forward to next months.

Thursday, 14 February 2013

Busy year ahead

Being a self confessed petrol head I should have known better than to try and run my diary through my little grey cells. The diary of events going on in the year is enough to make me reach for the aspirin now.

We may only be in February, but I am already booked for drifting weekends in April, Motorcycle Live and Nitrous Circus in Novemeber and a stunt festival in August. That is not including the entire four days of GoodWood Festival of Speed. On top of that there will day trips to MotorCross and FMX events and one day drifting and RallyCross events. Plus the standard Top Gear Live pilgrimage. Then there is ArenaCross through the winter.

You see motor sports continue regardless of the season and weather, there will always be an event somewhere to give you that 2 or 4 stroke fume rush. The only thing that is as constant is the guarantee of the fumes that need removing from your hair and clothes. The fact that most of these events are out doors in the great british weather means careful planning as I have managed sun burn and fully clothed shower in one outing before. But I can be sure of one thing I will be guaranteed entertainment and an enjoyable day or weekend out.

I don't go there for the morbid delight at viewing the crashes and accidents, as has been suggested to me before. Far from it, that is the part that pours pure fear through my veins. I have see very few accidents fortunately a couple of light spills from bikes mainly. That said I have seen one horrendous one at BritCar 08 where there driver was badly hurt, and another at Top Gear Live, that although wasn't that bad at the time I was terrified, purely as the Bowler that was overturned was skidding directly to where we were seated, I was ready to jump 10ft off the seating to avoid that collision. No I go to these events to admire the skill of driving talent that prevails. These people don't win races by just putting their foot down on the gas, but instead knowing when to do so and more importantly when not to.

So this year is rapidly filling with events, having already clocked up two in as many months already. I really must find myself a diary asap, before I end up double booking myself which will no doubt happen at least once. The one thing about being a motor sport fan is you are never bored.

Wednesday, 13 February 2013

4 Seasons in a week

I love Britain where else can you get all four seasons in week. Down here we have had glorious sun one day, Autumn haze the net, Spring showers then Winter snow.

In one way it is delightfully changeable, in another it is totally frustrating and plays havoc with my CRPS. The warm days are fine I am more mobile and the pain is a near bearable level, but the sudden old snaps shock the pain levels into the unknown regions of hell. It also causes pain in my sinuses which compounds the problem.

To think two years ago I was up to my knees in the snow taking pictures and behaving like a total kid, and now I am shying away from it as it is the plague. But life moves through changes even if our weather stands predictably uncertain. Like today half the country thinks it has moved to the north pole and the other half the one I am stuck in is so confused it has locked itself in this state of grey.

Maybe it is a metaphor for the morale down here. Stuck in a rut of depression from the economy and job situation. Like the weather has it's own version of SAD. Before everyone thinks I am losing my marbles I am going somewhere with this. The last 12 months seem to have been predominately rain and floods or snow and the hazards that brings. As natives of this country will mainly agree, the last 12 months have been one of economy slump, mass shop closures and constant financial concerns personally and national. The only breaks we have got are the Jubilee and the Olympics and even then the weather made sure to make it's mark on them.

Based on this could it be a case that as a country we are suffering nationally of SAD or a mild form of it ? Thus every one has a grey tinted view on the perspective of the day to day things. I am not saying there aren't genuine problems going on. But instead we can't see the elements of light when they come into view. I can talk this one step further, in the last few years there have been increases in both rickets and vitamin A,D and K deficiencies, all of which are due to lack of sun exposure and an lead to depression as well as many other side affects.

I am not going to breach the medical advice and tell the country to all start sunbathing and disregard all the safe sun advice,  far from it I burn quicker than most. However how many of us. decide to stay indoors at lunch time, even if the sun has broken through the rain for ten minutes, or rather than face the bracing cold and walk the 10 minutes down the road to get a pint of milk we hop in a car. Just these little actions would give us enough exposure to the sun to maintain our daily needs and improve our mind set..

I don't know if this would improve everything in our lives, but maybe it could ease our moods and make us sense more in perspective. As a country we may not be getting enough sun to improve our crops, but by having so many seasons in as many days we could have enough to get through the week. For we are an island nation, it is about time we start returning to our natural lifestyles.

Over Priced Valentine

As a married person Valentine should be easy for me, you know standard card, token chocolates and maybe a flower or two. But seriously has anyone in their right mind looked at the price of the stuff this year. I know we aren't meant to flinch at the price of things we spend on our beloved, but I for one have a husbnds birthday and a mothers birthday within the month and a mother in laws on the same day. So yea cost does come into it.

Having had a good look round and self near heart attacks at some of the prices I have come up with the next few ideas that won't break the bank.

As there are few bunches of flowers that don't need a mortgage I have come up with the following, Tesco's do  dozen red roses for £5 but get there early as they are sure to be snapped up, especially when 1 red rose boxed costs £5 at Sainsburys and two dozen cost £85 at Interflora. Or as a nice chance ( and often more appreiated by the men) a single chocolate red foiled wrapped rose is £1.

To be honest you aren't going to get much under £3 in the way of Valentines cards, however £3 will get a larger card at ASDA or a smaller more handmade style one at Sainsaburys. Or better still a hand made one with your favourite poem or verse that is special between just you and your partner.

Chocolates at this time of year are stupidly priced especially the valentines wrapped ones. Having searched high and low for suggestions to leave hubby dearest here is what I have come up with. Lindt have many offers in the supermarkets for their small cornets of Lindor at £3.99. Guelian seashell are £1 for a small box of 4 in Sainsburys. Or if your other half has a Cadburys taste in Chocolate why not buy them a general selection of the their favourites and put them in a gift basket.

If your partner likes sweet things but not necessarily chocolate Krispy Kreme are doing a Valentines dozen at £9.95 available at their stores and most larger Tescos. Or ASDA have cupcakes hand make for £2. If you want to treat your partner to the full meal the best on the market is the Marks and Spencer deal for £20 which includes a starter, main meal and a side, wine and a small box of chocolate.

All in all tomorrow comes at its cost, the actually idea of romance is over come buy material expense. I would personally prefer one kindly thought out token of romance, than half a pay cheque wasted on cheap tat. But then that is just me.

Wish List for 2013

I know it is a little of  a weird thing to do, but I thought I would put pen to paper and list the items I just want to get so far in the year.

The 1st thing is more  waiting to get item as I have it on order already and that is the Body Shop absinthe hand care range from £11 upwards. I have heard rave reviews from friends so I have been itching to try it. Winter has taken it's toil on all our hands so any little pampering will do.

The next thing is L'Occitane matt fluid in the Angelia range, I have tried this before and it makes my skin look and feel soft and velvet like. I am hoping this is actually my valentines present as at £24 a pop it is a real treat for my skin.

I m also after the Wink pen by Barry M at £4,99. It is an eye liner liquid, that is like the old berol felt tip pens from my youth. After many liquid liner disasters , I think this will be the last chance saloon for me and liquids. If this doesn't work nothing will!

Shoe wise there is a pair in the new Kandee range I just have to have, but I dread what their price will be. They are silver wedge trainers with a set of pink lips on the side. If ever there was pop art for hoes these will be them. They are due out in the spring / summer 13 range.

I am going to admit ( and I am waiting for the groans here) I have yet to get into the onesie trend. But I do however want one. Mainly for a practical reason it will stop a draught on my damaged back, and generally looks very cosy for duvet days. I am just trying to find cute one that will suit me.

Whilst I am on clothes, I have seen a military style parka from George at ASDA. It is £28 and a khaki green, but it is one of those jackets that may actually have enough pockets to not require a bag. I used to have a jacket like this in corduroy and cried when it gave up the ghost so this may replace it nicely. I already have plenty of clothes and boots in that colour scheme so it will be a great investment.

The last thing so far is a Nip and Fab set I have seen at ASOS. It is case of choosing between the after party set £8.50 or the 10 years younger at £11. Both are greatly reduced and I am seriously thinking I have to have both. I am itching to try the frown filler and dark circles corrector. But there are other bits I must try as well. If they stay at that price till the end of the month I am thinking £20 will have to be spent.

So that's my wish list so far, at least till post summer, wonder whats in yours.

Saturday, 9 February 2013

First Asos Purchase

So I am behind the times, ASOS is a company that seems to be filed in every ones fashion bible. Now it is in mine as I tried it out for the first time this week.

The main reason was I have dropped a clothes size and that deserves a reward. Granted it was a half price reward, but I fell in love with a pair of jeans. Not something I desperately need as I seem to have a pair for every day of the week and a few to spare. But if this makes sense I have different pairs for different occasions. I have plain blue and black jeans, skinny fit jeans in white, grey and pink. Straight cut lilac ones. A pair that have zips at the ankles, biker jeans, boyfriend cut jeans and the standard ripped jeans. That's just the pairs I can remember. However the jeans I fell in love with are patterned skinny jeans with butterflies on, so defiantly nothing like any other pairs I own.

I took a chance and ordered my skinnier size, paid the money and waited, The good thing about this site is the lack of high delivery charge if you are prepared to wait a day or two for you goods to arrive. Anyway I ordered on Friday night and they were in my hands on Tuesday, which I don't think is much of a wait anyway. Ripping the package open like a five year old at Christmas I hurriedly tried them on. They were a perfect fit, and despite families concern of having not properly broken them in, I wore them all day on Wednesday at my big outing.

What I have noticed is the grave variety of fabric in jeans, these were sturdy with out being course or raw on my skin. and are perfect for the chilly weather, although I don't think these are hot weather jeans. Not that this will put me off wearing them during the Spring, when it arrives.

Overall I was thoroughly pleased with the whole shopping experience from start to finish, and the product was of high quality. This means no doubt I will be buying a few other bits from ASOS, but probably not till nearer the summer as I need to have a serious wardrobe sort out. In the mean time I will enjoy my cheerful jeans that actually make my legs look longer  (thank you mum) and according to hubby define my boyish backside into a feminine bootie, that has to be a good thing.

Glosssy box January

Finally I got my membership with Glossy Box to work. I wanted to try this beauty box to compair it to Birchbox, so I couldn't wait to open my first delivery.

I am going to be honest, I am not impressed! Sure the pale pink box and minimal packing is a good thing, but the products inside left me a little cold. Granted perhaps the Detox idea was not the best one for me, but even still I felt slightly cheated.

One of the problems is one of the items I received was a face pack from Sanctuary. I have already received this from Latest in Beauty free samples which only costs me £1.50 for 3 items. Another item I received was a Glossy box labelled sleep mask,  I can't use those things at the best of times and certainly not when they are blazen with the company logo.

The other four items consisted of a full size lip balm from the American company Jason, containing bees wax and aloe. Then there is a travel size of Paul Mitchell hair conditioner, which moisturises, that's not too bad. A 30ml bottle of face tonic from Premae Skincare, and a 30ml bottle of Monu micro exfoliant for the face.

I don't know what it is, but I was left thinking is that it! I am hoping it is just the fact I got one of the last box from the month,as the web page shows more variety in the possibility, and there is nothing about the sleep mask. So I am hoping the new box is more dynamic and impressive. I will be fair and try three months worth of this box but unless there is a drastic improvement in what I receive I will only continue my BirchBox subscription. Which will be rather disappointing, as both companies advertise using various companies I love. The fact that I only recognise two names out of five in my box wasn't much upsetting as frustrating. Especially as the booklet accompanying the box does not give details of the manufactures, only skimming over the basics of each product and listing the price of each on their web page if you wish to purchase it.

I will try this products and report back on their results, but I don't know if I will maintain this box for any length of time as I am sure I can find something better for that amount of money.

New Look New Shoes

I had to do it, use that 50% discount offer on New Look shoes that fell into my lap over the weekend. I have used New Look mail order once before for a dress and was happy enough with that so it was just a case of being sensible.

This time I shopped with my head not my heart and choose shoes I needed to add to my already extensive collection, seriously how many pairs of converse and black boots can one girl own! I knew I only had one pair of summer pumps so that had to be corrected, I also wanted to get a pair of brogues as I am missing that kind of shoe in my wardrobe.

The website was easy enough to use and I soon found a pair of powder pink plimsolls for the summer, the brogues were relatively easy as well a pair of coffee brown suede ones were soon purchased. The problem was a pair of khaki wedge heeled boots also some how fell into my basket, can't think how. Total of my splurge? £25 and some change and that was with the postage. Not bad for 3 pairs of shoes.

Anyway said shoes arrived today, and I couldn't wait to test them. The plimsolls are gorgeous and perfect for a warm spring day. The brogues were surprising light but the difference in size between them and the plimsolls was surprising, I almost could have gone the size smaller for these. But they will look really nice with some strong tailoring, although I think I regret not buying them in black, but I needed to get some colour into my footwear. Then we have the khaki boots, although the heel was smaller than I like the fit brilliantly and are so light I will find them easy to use even with my back and crutches.

All in all I am delighted with my purchases. the only down size is they came in soft packaging and no boxes, so I really have to invest in some proper shoe storage soon as I have a real issue with shoes everywhere. Ah well a girl just has to have shoes for every occasion doesn't she?

The only gear is Top Gear !

OK I admit it I am bias and freely admit I always will be. So nothing makes me a happier bunny than the chance to go and see them record the show. I was a little apprehensive this time though, purely as this is the first time I faced standing for any length of time with only my sticks to hold me up.

Despite the lengthy wait to get in to the studio, I noticed that people did take care of us less able in the world, even the floor manager double checked I would fine standing. To be honest I could have been in agony but I still would have made it through. That's what pain killers were invented for. This wasn't the first time I have been there so I knew I could get out of the crush if I needed to.

I am not going to give anything away as to what is there is in the show, so I will just say what I saw was brilliant. It certainly has paid off for them to have a years break, as the balance of humour and fact is back in balance. The presenters themselves were friendly as ever, and although at times in the break they were 6 deep they still managed to give as many people photos and autographs as possible. What was nice was being able to speak to the boss after and giving him some genuine input as a viewer. Very few shows allow that.

I was lucky to go with people who had never been before, so they went in with fresh eyes and were still saying the same thing as I, which is reassuring, as it means it isn't just me. The four of us all left with different highlights but still the same buzz. It is hard to explain, but there is something there that is lacking in most studio shows, something less formal and more active.

The fact the presenters are reachable does make it an experience, rather than an outing. This is increased by the fact you can speak to them and with in the restraints of the timing they will give the audience as much time as possible. Compared to most presenters these days who give out this too cool for school attitude, Top Gear never seems to forget it is only the show it is because of the interaction between audience and show. There are times the audience is requested to join in with comments, some times embarrassing the poor person. But who wouldn't really want the chance to take on the great Clarkson.

Needless to say I and my group of friends all had a highly enjoyable day, the only downside is the fact all good things finish way to quickly. I always feel sad that the day ends and we have to return to the normal world where the chances of seeing a car of our dreams is nothing more than a dream. There are vehicles I have encountered down there I would never dream of seeing in the metal so to speak. This week was no exception, but you have to watch on Sunday to see what I did.

Granted it is not every ones ideal, but for me it is the ultimate escape, so much so if some one wanted to give me a job as a gopher there I would snatch it up, purely because to be involved in such a quality product of a show is enough in itself. But that is just a dream, for now I will settle with having been in the audience. Crutches or not in there it is all about the fuel and speed, and trust me, even I was in top gear that day.

Friday, 8 February 2013

Nip + Fab Multi-Fix Oil

This is a new brand to me although I have been hearing such good reports it was on my to try list. So when Fee at http://www.makeupsavvy.co.uk/ was having a make up sale and this was on offer I knew I just had to try it.

As well as the company being new to me, so was the idea of multi fix oils. But I have to admit I gave it a worthy trial. Yesterday I spent more than enough time in the bitter English weather to trash any ones skin. It was dry and wind burnt by the time I am home. Being a cautious tester due to sensitive skin, I tried a small amount on my leg first and left it for an hour. When there was no reaction I tried it on my poor suffering face. A small amount worked into my face, was plenty. After the nights sleep, I was left with soft feeling skin. Result in my book, although it does nothing to reducing the redness from the torture I put my skin through, it repaired the dry, chapped feel it  was left with after such torture.

I am not saying this is a miracle product, but as far as a recovery product for tomboy days, this suites me to a tee, and will be a stable in my beauty box. Thank you Fee for passing this on, you hae me hooked.

Sunday, 3 February 2013

Nice little discount codes

Calling all those lovers of Barry M and or New Look shoes, The Sun on Sunday is a must for you, they have disount codes for both those companies in todays paper.

For readers there is 20 % off Barry M till 11.59pm on the 17th of Feb and 50% of New Look shoes till tomorrow but you can use that one online.

The offers are to celebrate 5 years of the papers magazine and well woth the 50p expenditure to get the code, so I suggest you whip to the nearest petrol station and snap it up. If any one can't find the code in their mag just give me a message and I will let you know what you are looking for.

Macademia nut hair oil

I have been watching the trend for hair oils, and like most other trends I wait for the hype to calm before I even bother looking into things. Finally I made my mind up to try this oil out of all in the market. It is mid range priced at about £14 and easily available.

For once I wish I hadn't had waited from the first usage it has worked nearly miracles on my wild hair. I have been blessed ( or at times cursed) with hair that sees water and curls. Not nice waves but in some places ringlets. Yes it looked sweet on Shirley Temple but not so much on a 40 year old. The only cure I have is frizz ease and having layers cut into my hair. But even still getting it manageable and glossy has been a dream only achieved by paying £80 to a hairdresser.

I followed the instructions not knowing what I was expecting to happen,, I but I was truly surprised to have manageable glossy soft hair at the end of it. Even more impressed was I a day later when it still looked as soft and glossy and felt touchable. I was lost for words, so I tried it on the next wash.and the results were the same. So impressive was the result I am now having to battle parent dearest from the bottle.

Unfortunately I can't offer a comparison to any of the other oils on the market, but in regards to leave in conditioners and de tanglers this product is far superior to anything I have used. As for the price the little amount required means the bottle will last a while so I don't think it is that expensive.

Saturday, 2 February 2013

A week best forgot.

Sorry for the lack of blogs this week, kinda had a shock in parents health that took priority to cyber life. Nothing can give a person a harder reality check than a medical scare.

What was meant to be a standard annual medical review turned into a panic, well for mum that was. Her normal blood pressure was sky high, so high in fact she was put on immediate medication and I am on orders to bring her back next week to book ECG scans etc. She needless to say panicked further which was no help at all. So the rest of the day was spent calming her down and putting in place some ground rules to help her lower the blood pressure.

It has been a bit fraught to start with, but slowly over the last few days she actually looks a lot better than she has for months.and is doing more. This could be nothing, but when husband even notices it there must be something happening.

We are back there next Tuesday to see what happens next, but for now that's where we stand in limbo.

Sunday, 27 January 2013

Sunday nights saved

When I not being all girly, I am a real little petrol head. So nothing can distract me from the television when Top Gear is new on our screens. Needless to say for an hour tonight there was absolute silence in my house whilst it was on.

It is the only program in the house which every member of the family will come together and sit and watch. No talking only laughter is the sounds made. Now I know it is not every ones cup of tea, but for millions of views in the world it brings an hour of comic relief with interesting facts. For me that spells a quality program.

I have been lucky enough over the years to go and see the program recorded, and meet the presenters. Despite their on screen antics, they are genuine gents, who I have seen at their best and worst. Working in adverse weather (trust me when it is hot there it is nothing short of an oven). The catering is dishwater tea and a bag of crisps, and the toilets are portacabins. There is no massive trailers just one portacabin and the hanger. Yet they make one of the most successful television shows in history. Sure the presenters play up to their caricatures, but they are not great actors. There have been episodes where they have no voices, cracked ribs and the infamous parking incident, yet the show still goes on. Even in the limited tea break they are often out for pictures and signings.

Yet what beats me is the bashing they get, online and in writing. The tabloids (one in particular ) love to rip the program to shreds, and make a drama out of a fleeting joke. Yet they keep going. Sure over the years the fan base has changed several times over, but the program keeps us watching.

So over the next few weeks I will be unobtainable between 8 and 9 pm along with the rest of my family. Enjoying that one program that unites us all and makes us laugh. Top Gear I salute you.

A most uneventful week

The quietness on this blog totally reflects the quietness of my week. Having been successfully snowed in for the majority of the week and broke till next payday. The week has both dragged and bored.

The only parcels to arrive were the bottles of Lady Gaga's Fame and a new macadamia nut hair oil, which smells heavenly and I can't wait to use to rescue my dry ends. I hate the count down to payday but I have planned what I am buying next. A large storage unit for my make up and some decent brushes. My big clear out revealed they were what I was desperately missing.

The other thing I am on the look out for is a decent gold belly bar and gold sleeper earrings. I don't mean gold plated either, I mean real gold as I am unable to wear anything else in my piercings. But as yet I am unable to find either with out fainting at the price. Granted I know I need to spend 20 per pair on the earrings but £60 for the belly bar? seriously? This world has gone mad I swear it.

Well next week is pay week and also the snow has been substitute for wind and rain, so it is more optimist. I an get on line and choose a few bits to cheer me up. But for now I am fighting for my duvet with the dog